Once you have done something wrong, accept it. Acknowledge your fault, forgive yourself, then ask others for forgiveness. Afterwards, not much else can be done. Those who are unable to accept you may pass judgement on you– both positive and negative –for a long time. Often times, we are pulled so far into this state of shock that we are unable to understand that as humans, we make mistakes. We also tend to forget that we are not in the position to judge others; that is in God’s hands.